Nollywood actress, Dayo Amusa has shared her struggle to conceive her child and how her husband left during the trial period of her journey to motherhood.
The mother of one, Dayo Amusa took to her Instagram page where she shared her emotional testimony: struggles with motherhood and her husband leaving her amid IVF challenges.
According to Dayo Amusa, she had many failed IVFs, had 3 miscarriages, in 2015, she was diagnosed with uterine myomatosis, and some doctors recommended removing her womb due to the complications and discomfort.
Frustrated by the challenges, her husband, who was over 40 and eager to have a child that year, proposed a shocking solution—suggesting he father a child with another woman while she continued waiting for a “miracle baby.” Unable to accept this arrangement, Dayo Amusa explained that their relationship broke down, and he eventually left her. Months later, he fathered a baby girl with someone else.
Dayo Amusa wrote, “MY TESTIMONY!!!
I never thought I would get to this moment but GOD knew.
“For as long as I can remember I knew I wanted to be a complete idea woman ( a wife and mom ) Having had 3 miscarriages, in 2015, I was diagnosed with uterine myomatosis, and some doctors recommended removing my womb due to the complications and discomfort i experience every month during my menstrual cycle. I decided to fight and reject that option. I was on medications, injections and treatments to stop the growth of tumors until my uncle’s wife advised I come to uk for treatment.
“14th of Feb. 2015, I had the surgery to remove the tumor via TCRE Laparoscopy dye ovarian drilling procedure as I was really afraid of being open… In 2016 myself and my then partner decided to try again as we were so eager to welcome our 1st child together but later discovered one of my tubes was broken and it would be almost impossible to get pregnant naturally… Men as men, my then partner was involve with another woman unknown to me which produced a baby boy. After so many ups and downs, back and forth, na so the whole thing ended (Story for another day)
“Fast forward ⏩ Jan 2019 Myself and my supposed husband kept trying to no avail and then we decided to try IVF but yet all efforts were negative outcome. My supposed husband was really impatient with me, He was over 40yrs old and was insisting on having a child that year. He proposed if I could allow him to get someone else pregnant while am waiting on my miracle baby 😊 and when I couldn’t live with that, he walked away and ofcourse, got someone else pregnant months later and that produced him a baby girl.”
In the year 2024, Dayo Amusa welcomed her first child as reported by PMNEWSNIGERIA.
